Baby steps.

Liz. 22 years of friendship and adventures.  More to come. Ditto, my friend.

I was eavesdropping on a conversation Friday between two women encouraging each other to be more active. They kept gently reminding each other not to get overwhelmed with the big picture; ‘start small’ they kept telling each other. They were casting around for ideas on how exactly to start with something they could do now, maintain, enjoy and build on…

They got rolling with some great ideas…

I really enjoyed their conversation. And TOTALLY had to fight the urge to just jump in uninvited! 🙂

Think about watching a child learning to walk….

They crawl. They pull themselves up on things so they can stand, assisted. Then they attempt to let go… Halting, uncertain, determined focus.  Throw in a few temper tantrums. Plenty of falling down and getting back up. Countless failed attempts.

BUT, they will NOT give up.

Then ONE step finally leads to two and… before you know it… they’re off and running with abandon. 🙂

Liz, one of my best friends, sent me this note, when I asked her for some feedback on my blog.

“You told me you got started with more exercise just by parking far away at work.

I think that’s a fantastic tip/story for your readers. Where did you get the idea? How many more steps did you get in?

You’ve come a long way from getting your exercise by walking to your car.

Show your readers just how slow you started.

Baby steps.” — Liz

Three and half years ago I was taking lots of baby steps.

They genuinely felt like HUGE, monster steps to me! But they were actually just the right/bite-sized pieces needed to get to the much bigger goal.

I was down to 285 pounds from a high of 392.  I was taking 3 shots a day.  Handfuls of pills.  Walking in from my car to my desk took genuine effort. To change all of that; I knew I had to take ALL of that stuff and break it down into small, tiny, manageable, must-not-panic-and-quit pieces. It was the only way I was ever going to get started with building a healthy lifestyle and being active.

So what were some of the first and small steps I took towards moving more?

  • I parked farther away from my office.  Grocery store.  Mall.  I no longer took the closest parking spots.
  • I took the stairs EVEN when if it meant I showed up to a meeting with a sweaty head, red face and gasping for air.  (I carried baby wipes and a bandana in my bag.  No excuses.)
  • I wore a pedometer every day and tried to hit 5,000 steps. Then 10,000. Then 15,000.
  • I put on workout clothes and went for walks on purpose at least 3 days a week ON TOP of the 10,000 steps.
  • I picked meeting spots that were as far away from my office as possible so I was required to walk.  Given that I tend to cut timing close — it meant it was always a ‘brisk’ walk. 🙂
  • I turned lunches/coffee meetings into walking meetings with willing and understanding coworkers.

Baby steps.  Adding on a just a little at a time.

I often get asked how long my first run was – what was ‘my starting mileage’. I ALWAYS start by explaining that I walked for years.  Literally.  I walked.  A lot.  I walked faster, walked farther — I worked on walking before I ever tried to run a step.  And when I ran?  I wanted to be able to run between telephone poles.  I made it across a driveway.  My starting mileage was FEET.  And I was PROUD OF THAT!  (Still am to be honest!)

I abso-freaking-lutely walked a TON before I ever, ever tried to run.

Baby steps is what this whole adventure is really about. 🙂

What baby steps did you take when you were teaching yourself to make exercise a habit?!

Liz’s wedding to Andy! SUCH a happy and fun day!

3 thoughts on “Baby steps.

  1. Your story is a continuing inspiration. I’ve not personally had such a challenge, but I still feel better knowing that people can and do achieve such victories.

    Love it!

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    1. THANK YOU! I really – REALLY! – want people to know that if I can do it… ANYONE can. And if you have something that CAN be reversed; you have to try to reverse it. Not just accept that it’s around to stay… How many people receive a diagnosis from which there is NO possible reversing it…? I had to try to turn things around. And I have. And I am working intentionally to keep it turned around. THANK you for reading – and thank you for taking the time to comment.


  2. So, my story is a lot like yours! I borrowed a Fitbit from the library for three weeks because I couldn’t afford one. Then I was gifted a hand me down Fitbit. I started with about 2-4,000 steps a day. UGH. I never dreamed I could get to 10,000 steps a DAY! (Last week I won a Fitbit challenge…I had 20k steps a day!!) Getting the Fitbit was in January 2017. I just realized that. I started with using the get 250 steps an hour thing. I worked up to 5000, 6000,…10,000 steps a day. Then had hernia surgery and had to start over. But I did. Then in January 2018 I signed up for my DREAM of doing Pat’s Run. I started purposefully walking to train for that. One mile, really walking, was tough. I signed up and put down that I could finish in 90 minutes. 4.2 miles. Kids got sick, set back, but I got back on track. And yesterday i walked (quickly) that 4.2 miles in 1 hour, 19 minutes, 58 seconds!! (even with LOTS of uphill, for me, and lots of being stuck behind slower walkers) Thanks for helping me remember that in January one mile quickly was hard and yesterday I did 4.2 miles more than 10 minutes FASTER than my dream goal!

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